Online Dating - Single and Seeking??.attention

With the dawn of My Space, Yahoo 360, Friendster, etc. (I like to call them the "poor man's dating sites, lol). There's a new form of the "online profile". These sites seem to set the precedence of how one can now go about putting up an online profile and a certain method of how they present themselves.

I have seen this method used on other regular dating sites as well. This particular format is (for women) to post around 5 or 6 photos of oneself in their bikini or even underwear. Some shove the webcam into their cleavage, and take pictures of certain body parts (no nudity of course, they aren't allowed on the sites). Online pictures of their butts, cleavage?..more butts and cleavage.

If they don't want to go the "Bedroom-wear Lingerie" route, a female can always dawn a string bikini, have her posing seductively by the poolside. I have seen some women do it in a cheap manner, they have a picture taken of themselves in the kitchen or living room, as if they put on the bikini JUST for the photo to put online. I was wondering, are these ladies just "wanna-be" models hoping to get discovered?

Granted, I love breasts on a woman, however, to flaunt it online is a bit distaste-ful, wouldn't you agree? Is this the kind of woman you can bring home to your parents?

Is this woman "Single and Seeking?" or "Single and SEEKING attention? To me, this represents her character immediately.

But, on the other hand, these very same women complain in their profiles write-ups that they get irritated with the "perverted" emails they get from men, and to stop emailing her.

Okay, gentleman, you lucky guys aren't going to be left out of the mix?.you can be just as guilty?what's with the cell phone pics of you raising your shirt up?

Anyways, it seems it's more about a popularity contest as opposed to actually seeking a mate or the love of your life. But what's so important about having a billion people on your friends list or having a full email box? What satisfaction can one get with something like that?

My advice would be to possibly take down all those sleazy photos of yourself if you are indeed looking for a serious relationship, because first impressions are often lasting impressions. I mean what does one get out of it? Even if you have an ego, it probably does very little for it.

I see a lot of people who defend themselves in this, "Well, if you don't like it, don't look at it." Well, that's kind of hard to do if you're putting it in our faces all the time. It's just a find display of one's arrogance. At least show some kind of modesty.

Stay tuned for my next Article "Gotta Pic??"

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